You hate your job but you choose to stay. Your partner is not the one and you know it but you choose to exist in the relationship anyway.
Does this sound familiar? I get it! I did this many times over. This is coping.
It was only when I hit rock bottom that I was forced to change something about my life. Coping had hit a dead end. I began to feel ill and became depressed.
Why me? I’m a good person! This is something I would ask but then I realized, I did this to myself. I needed to stop crying and begging God/Source/Universe/Higher Power/ All, to change my life when I was given the power of choice to do it myself. I had to start taking action. After I began to put one foot in front of the other, great things began to happen. Your choices can change your life almost immediately.
I made my mind up, cut the cords and healed from things and situations that I was coping with. Life is precious and no one has time to waste by coping away years of your life.
You are comfortable with being uncomfortable if you are coping..tolerating.
Walk out of that space, you will not regret it. Will it be scary? Honestly, I was terrified but what I was doing wasn’t working and to me it was a matter of life and death. I chose life!
Take a step today out of your comfort zone.